Hello there and welcome to my article. OK you're probably going through a tough time at the moment. You want to win over the girl who was cheated on. It is irrelevant who did the cheating, you simply want to win over this girl. Don't worry because help is at hand and I want to help you. If you take some simple steps it will go a long way to getting your girl but you must thread very carefully as one wrong move can jeopardize your chances. So please read on to help you find the happiness you deserve!

- OK, you must be extremely sensitive to the girl who was cheated on. Her wounds will be extremely tender and sensitive. This is your opportunity to shine. You must be attentive to her every need at these early stages. Being a good listener and supportive will show her that she can trust men again and she will regain her faith in relationships.

- Encourage open communication. It is dangerous for a person who has been cheated on not to communicate. They must express their feelings. Again this is where you come in. If you are the rock upon which she is leaning on then you will be the Knight in shining armor.

- Talk to her about the good times, all the things you have in common, all the old laughs you had in the past. Keep reminding her of this and she will see what a good person you are.

- Remind the woman who was cheated how special she is. That is a wonderful woman. Good old fashioned reassurance. Her confidence has probably taken a hit after being cheated on but it is up to you now to give her reassurances that she is a wonderful person and reiterate how much you will do for her.

- Keep your promises. If you keep your word this will restore her confidence in relationships. So if you tell her you want her you must show her how much you mean it.

- Good old fashioned romance can go a long way to helping a woman get over being cheated. Yes I mean flowers, surprises and romantic gestures. This will show that you are genuine and again restore her faith in the power of love and romance and that one experience of being cheated on should not deter you both from having future happiness together.

Remember that life is short and you must seize the moment. There is a great chance for you to recapture the love you once had but you must act NOW. Everyone deserves happiness in this life, especially you. Just think of the happy future you can have by getting back with your ex!